Please, if you believe your children are the reason you shout angrily, stop reading from here.
Survey has shown that this parenting style has mass produced smart kids with very low self esteem. Do you have a child struggling with lack of focus, low self esteem and lack of self confidence?
YOU HATE IT WHEN YOU SHOUT ANGRILY AT YOUR CHILDREN
But nothing else works
There is a tendency you’ll be spending a large chunk of your time with your child(ren) either shouting, threatening, beating or putting yourself in a perpetual state of dis-empowerment.
No, that isn’t a life you should be comfortable with.
When I became a mother, I was a complete novice. I had many odds against me, that may be you too, but I decided to prove the odds wrong and went in search of solutions.
I understood the old adage which says- “ The wiser you are the better you live” what you don’t know, you will suffer for”
So I picked up courage and decided to show my vulnerability to my teachers and people with the type of result I admire.
I paid millions in naira and thousands in dollars in search of awareness and knowledge.
During prize giving days, i did walk up to parents whose children got all the awards in both character and academics and asked how they do it, i asked for specific routines/secret and i took note
I then registered for several behavioral modifications, Positive psychology, Personality assessments, Leadership, Emotional intelligence, classes, I read books upon books, despite my 8am – 5am Job, I do wake up at 2am to read and study.
As I learnt and practiced on my two boys- who I nicknamed my lab rats, and later PA and Hand bag🥰🥰
First thing I learnt was that I am the one who needs to change first. WHAT? HOW? I honestly struggled with this, but then i trusted the process
…as i subjected myself to changing and applying the several leadership and behavioral change tools i was learning, like magic, i started noticing a shift at home, early morning preparation to school became a breeze, assignments were done before i returned back from work, instructions became more conversational, bedtime routine was a breeze, we started playing more, i even bought a bicycle so i join the boys to ride and race. (I had a fatal fall from the bicycle twice, story of my life) as if that is not all,
The win on the home front soon became a public win – we started winning awards in school, both in behavior and academics, at some point we moved to a better school, thinking maybe the school was not competitive enough, but the same applaud and awards continued.
What happened? i changed from being the traditional parents i learnt from my own parents and sibling to become a peak performance coach Parent for my children, after about a decade of several mind blowing wins, which led to my clients paying hundreds of thousands so i can coach their teens too, i decided to shift strategy,
Uchechukwu Mojekwu is the founder of Makarios Consulting Services, a management consulting company
She is a behavioral modification and leadership development coach.
She is an enterprise process improvement expert and an Human Resources Management professional
She is certified and licensed by The John Maxwell Leadership Team to bring proven leadership strategies and practices that organizations would not otherwise have access to.
Uche is also a Master Result Performance Consultant of Neuro linguistic programming, an Emotional Intelligence Specialist, a DISC personality assessment consultant.
will show you exactly how to stimulate or heal the imagination of your child.
Honestly, we can’t produce a 21st century star child using an archaic parenting style that is meant for the archives, even car companies are aware that if they don’t change their technology and techniques, their car brand will become obsolete.
Parents should parent with the same secret of car manufacturer- continuous improvement – The kaizen principle
The wiser we are, the better we live with our children
What we don’t know, we will suffer for
Just trust the process
Join the classes
Do your assignment
And notice the changes, it’s like magic
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I have learnt by experience and practice that by investing in other people’s children, your own children enjoy blessings beyond your labor. We approach our coach parent coaching by focusing on helping you excavate and dismantle unconscious patterns and disempowering beliefs using masterfully crafted tools of Neuro Linguistics Programming and Positive Psychology
Check anywhere in the world, this one-month program assembles world class tools, techniques, and models for behavioral modification and change work.
NO MORE BANGING HEAD AND PUFFY EYES
You SHOUT, even though you don’t want to, YOU HATE WHAT YOU DO
You do it when you are in a hurry to work
When you are tired from a long day at work
You do it when you are stressed out
You do it when you don’t want to be disturbed or bothered
SHOUTING, IS NOT AN EFFECTIVE TOOL OF BEHAVIOURAL MODIFICATION
The module is ABSOLUTELY FREE – This module allows everyone enjoy a teaser and a thorough introduction to this epic parenting model
This introduction to the knowledge, tools and techniques of NLP for parenting will change your life forever. NLP helps to understand what drives human behavior.
This module will help you dive into your biggest asset for human performance- THE MIND.
You will unravel disempowering patterns and belief systems, examine and identify the clogs in your mind and the possible clogs in the mind of your children.
We will review your Family Value proposition, vision and mission alignment.
You will learn about the mind, how the mind works, how to alter states, one of the 12 powerful presuppositions you will be learning on this module is-
There is no unresourceful child, there are only unresourceful states, you will learn how to induce resourceful states in humans generally and use it to influence positive actions. This module is designed to help you literally reprogram your child’s mindset
Emotional intelligence is your ability to understand both your emotions and emotions of others and the effect of these emotions have on a desired outcome and alter it if need be.
The world as is, is tough already, navigating this toughness and showing up as a responsible parent despite all the odds against you drains your mental and cognitive resources of parents who work round the clock to provide shelter and cater for the welfare of their loved one.
Many adults move around mentally hijacked,(suffering from Amygdala hijack). Some are living with unresolved emotional trauma and unintentionally bleeding on their children.
EQ helps you Manage your thought and feelings so that you are in control of your emotions and conversations
Emotionally intelligent parents know how to process their own emotions and address the child from a place of neutrality, in turn this helps children become aware of their emotions and regulate themselves.
The emotional intelligence assessment delivered in this class will help participant identify their areas of weakness within the emotional intelligence quadrant
The Maxwell DISC personality Indicator is a groundbreaking personality assessment and profile designed to help any person to be more effective by understanding their unique style.
I made sure my children learnt and mastered DISC personality profiling as well as other human personality theories and books before they got into secondary school.
This helped them become aware of their weaknesses, strength and ideal environment to thrive in. Within 10 mins of conversation, they can now identify/assess the personality of their schoolmates and adults they encounter, empowering them to navigate human relationships easily. DISC personality profiling is one tool that helps families understand each other’s weaknesses, strength, career path and bond better. This is cure to siblings rivalry
A coach is a growth catalyst – Coaching is a thought provoking conversation that helps you navigate challenges, maximize opportunities and grow into an even better version of yourself.
A coach parent is that parent that masterfully moves their child from where they are, to where they want to be and then to navigate the obstacles and challenges and opportunities that appear along the way.
This module will teach you the mindset of a coach, how to practice mindfulness, listening skills and powerful coaching languages that will help your child develop the ability to tap into his/her unconscious mind and draw on its superior power and potential to create the solutions they need to navigate and win with, even when you are not around- Say bye bye to micro managing your babies in adult skin
Have you ever wondered what other parents do differently that make their children stand out, win awards and scholarships?
Hope is not a Strategy, Grace, Hope and Luck thrives on KNOWLEDGE
You too can become the parent of an exceptional child.
Seeing parents complain about their frustration with their kids Inspired me to create the Stop Shouting Angrily at your children VS 1.0, and it was such a life transforming experience for all the parents that registered
And I am glad I did
With my certifications as a teacher, speaker, and coach from the John Maxwell team, a master performance consultant in Neuro-linguistic programming, and a certified Emotional Intelligence specialist, my inner circle affectionately calls me the “REBIRTH MIDWIFE.” I have a heart to help you align and bloom with your children.
You need to become aware of the triggers that cause those unrest between you and these lovely children.
You need to learn the most powerful techniques for influencing people around you to do the things you want them to do without breaking a head.
Ultimately, you need to learn the secret of the masters in controlling your emotions such that you and those around you can be happy all the time.
Research has shown that children become more aware of themselves and are able to lead themselves right during their experience at home with parents/guardians while on break.
Let’s work with you for this short period and ensure you apply it now and see how your kids will become the inestimable jewels you want them to be.